What we talk about at our monthly money meeting
The four parts of our meeting, in order, with the notebooks open on the table.
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Pay day: who moves what, and when
How we go through pay day together, so neither of us is guessing what has moved.
Three ways couples set up their accounts
One shared account, separate accounts, or a mix, drawn side by side with no right answer.
Bills week: writing the same list twice
Why each of us writes out the month's bills alone before we compare the two lists.
How to say we spent more than we planned
The words that keep a small overspend from turning into a big argument.
Yours, mine and ours in plain numbers
A worked example of three accounts, with the numbers written on paper so you can follow them.
Across the Table
A short letter every Sunday from the rattan table: one question to ask your partner and one thing to try this week.