
Pay day: who moves what, and when
How we go through pay day together, so neither of us is guessing what has moved.
November 3, 2026 · 12 min

A short letter every Sunday from the rattan table: one question to ask your partner and one thing to try this week.

How we go through pay day together, so neither of us is guessing what has moved.

Why each of us writes out the month's bills alone before we compare the two lists.